The Right Way to Deal with a Breakup

Everyone is bound to go through a breakup in their life and it's only natural that it feels horrible. I've seen a lot of people get together, date, breakup, get back together again.. but the most emotional transition is the breakup. Most people don't know a world without depression when it comes to breakups, but actually you can make the most of it. Think of it as a second chance to start fresh.

What to do?

First off, wipe those tears, grab that mascara and reapply. Nothing makes you feel good about yourself as much as looking in the mirror and seeing a beautiful lady in front of you. Sure a lot of things matter besides your appearance, but it gives the best self-confidence boost and it's actually fun! Go out, buy a bunch of new products and revamp your usual makeup routine! When your life is going through a negative change, face it with a positive one and find a new look that suits you!

Other than that, it's always good to take on new activities that you can do by yourself. Sure you used to catch the new episode of your favorite series together and you probably had your own table at a specific restaurant, CHANGE THAT ALL UP! Start a new series, hit the gym, try new places... Don't cling to the memories you made, make new ones. It's not about finding a new and better guy now, it's about finding a new and better you. As cliche as that sounds, sometimes the only way to be content and truly happy is to find your best self before you share yourself with someone else!

Ditch the ice-cream buckets and your 10 Things I Hate About You DVD and go out. Surround yourself with friends and meet new ones! You are all social butterflies that deserve to have some fun without one specific thing killing your mood. Go to the movies, go pubbing, clubbing, swimming, skiing, do whatever makes you happy with people who love seeing you happy.

IF YOU'RE A GUY! 

I honestly don't really know what makes you happiest but in my opinion, shave that beard, hit the gym, bulk up, be successful, and show that girl what she's missing out on! Whoever says girls have it worse in a breakup are mistaken. Guys can be nice and emotional too as much as they try to hide it with their macho personalities. If she didn't see in you all your good qualities then she didn't deserve you, and another girl definitely will. Until then, have some fun! :)