So you've been obsessing over this guy for a while now but he doesn't seem to give you the time of day. What do you do? FORGET ALL ABOUT HIM!
Well in reality, you just go mope about it on your own and hope that someday things will change and he'll come running after you. That's not the case though.
If you're doing your best so that the guy notices you and finds you intriguing there's a high chance that you guys don't match anyway. When you're trying hard to impress a guy, it only means that you believe the regular everyday you isn't good enough for him. You're changing yourself, trying to be a version of yourself that he'll fall in love with.
But girls, THE EFFORT! Do you really want to change yourself up so much for one guy? In the process of doing so, you're missing out on other people who are actually compatible with you.
If you're making an effort, the guy will notice and if he's not doing anything about it, you're in luck honestly, he can play you along with ten other girls, he wouldn't be losing anything. He's literally giving you all the signs to move on and that's what you should do.
And guess what?! Your world won't end.
Soon enough "Prince Charming" will naturally find his way into your life and it won't require any effort to make him realize that you're the one for him. On the contrary, he'll make sure you know that he's yours.
Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself - Coco Chanel
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